During times of loss, personalization has the ability to transform a basic cremation urn into a one-of-a-kind tribute.
While an urn designed solely for the purpose of housing cremated remains may serve its function, one that mirrors the departed’s character and spirit is a true portrayal of their life narrative.
Whether you find yourself reading this blog because you are interested in a simple engraved urn or one that is fully customized, gaining some general knowledge will ensure you are pleased with its appearance.
We’ve provided some tips and insights on how to personalize a cremation urn below.
The Basics
Imagine, for a moment, an art gallery. What likely comes to mind are vibrant paintings, not the blank canvases they once were.
Just as a canvas serves as a medium through which an artist conveys emotions and creates something entirely unique, the urn is a canvas for expressing sentiments about the individual being commemorated.
And much like an artist has a palette of colors to work with, families have a palette of personalization options available to them.
Standard Engraving
Typically, a personalized urn can encompass some form of engraving that follows this standard format:
- Line 1: Name(s) of Deceased
- Line 2: Date(s) of Birth and Death
- Line 3: Words of Endearment
Often, the words “In Memory Of” or “In Loving Memory” are inscribed above the person’s name. And in the case of engraving a companion or dual capacity urn that memorializes two individuals, the layout may slightly differ from the traditional arrangement.
Font Type
When choosing a font style, it is important to prioritize legibility and style. Basic fonts are the most common and easiest to read. While script and italicized text may be visually appealing, they sometimes lack readability.
As for style, personal tastes and preferences should be taken into consideration. Spending some time thinking about whether a modern, classic, or minimalist font is fitting is always a good starting point.
Fonts can be chosen with the individual’s personality in mind. For instance, a formal font may be a better option for a serious individual than for a light-hearted person.
Some popular fonts include:
- Arial: Clean, easy to read, considered a safe choice.
- Raleway Italic: Professional with a touch of personality.
- Times New Roman: A classic style, widely recognized.
- Souvenir: Friendly, soft, and undemanding.
- Lydian: Offers a handwritten, calligraphic feel
- Murray Hill: Elegant and delegate.
Endearing Sentiments
Another decision that must be made is whether the engraving will incorporate words of endearment. Thoughtfully chosen descriptive words offer a meaningful glimpse into a person’s life.
These short inscriptions vary widely. Some families opt for simple tributes while others choose specific ones that reflect religious beliefs, familial relationships, or military service.
The majority of urns can accommodate up to 5 to 7 words, depending on its size and design. A companion urn may offer additional space.
Below are some examples of words of endearment:
- In loving memory
- In God’s care
- Gone but not forgotten
- Loving mother (father, sister, brother, etc.)
- Rest in peace
- Forever in our heart
Photographs
An urn that showcases cherished photos preserves the departed’s memory for years to come.
For those looking for the ultimate in personalization and superior quality, Trigard offers solid bronze portrait and collage-style photo urns in Brilliant Impressions® and traditional oxide finishes. Beautifully crafted wood photo urns are also available.
The following guidelines should be followed when picking out a photo:
- Select a high-resolution image that is clear and sharp.
- Choose a photo captured with a camera rather than a smartphone when possible.
- Do not use a screenshot, even if it appears to be of high quality.
- Original photos are preferred over copied and scanned images
Emblems
Most urns that allow personalization can accommodate an emblem. These symbols are generally offered in a vast array of designs, often categorized by themes such as spiritual beliefs, hobbies/interests, military service, animals, and music.
Depending on the urn, there may be an opportunity to create a custom design. Reflecting on special memories with the departed can help families narrow down their choices.
Medallions
Remembrance medallions can enhance the value and beauty of an urn when added to its front. These adornments, both elegant and timeless, can make a profound statement.
Medallions are made from several materials including bronze, ceramic, and resin. Certain styles can even feature the detailed likeness of a loved one or signify their military service.
Final Thoughts
The choice to honor a loved one through a personalized urn is an act of love, a testament to the bonds that transcend this life. It is a commitment to keeping their memory alive, allowing their light to continue to shine in the lives of those they touched.
So, if you will be personalizing a loved one’s urn, take your time, cherish the creative process, and craft an urn that will stand as a lasting tribute to a life well-lived, a love never forgotten, and a legacy that will endure through the ages.
